tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-632303676302577456.post5940651346026493651..comments2023-10-29T03:51:23.280-04:00Comments on Lost in Singledom: And the "Experts" Agree - Response #1Melaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12126555286862036114noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-632303676302577456.post-58328538064521714352010-08-13T10:13:49.114-04:002010-08-13T10:13:49.114-04:00I think, a lot of times, you just lose that feelin...I think, a lot of times, you just lose that feeling that you need to continue impressing the other person, at least on a constant basis. I figure that's why a lot of people gain that "happy weight" right after they get married. You're happy, you're comfortable with someone and "the chase" is over...in your head. And I think it's all too easy to continue that Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12126555286862036114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-632303676302577456.post-40570507758188813072010-08-13T08:02:38.872-04:002010-08-13T08:02:38.872-04:00Nice Guy,
You are awesome! I love that you took s...Nice Guy, <br />You are awesome! I love that you took such time & thought for your response! :) It's funny I posed this question to my husband and I felt an echo in the room. I do think it's true that maybe not everything is 50-50; to a 100% as long as you're both putting effort in maybe you don't have to be even at all times... Maybe I did doll myself up a little more often Beachbumnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-632303676302577456.post-65542411685365767242010-08-12T23:55:11.221-04:002010-08-12T23:55:11.221-04:00As the one who asked this question, this answer wa...As the one who asked this question, this answer was very helpful. Thanks, Nice Guy! Sometimes we do tend to expect too much in a relationship, and it's important to remember it's not going to be great all the time. It's good to know that guys still care even if they don't act like it once in a while.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-632303676302577456.post-30730652228614144632010-08-12T22:09:14.658-04:002010-08-12T22:09:14.658-04:00I agree with Nice Guy. I don't think anybody, ...I agree with Nice Guy. I don't think anybody, male or female acts the same after you have been in a relationship for a period of time. Ladies we all know that after six months or so, we don't always put on our make-up and dress up for our man. Because he should love us for who we are. <br />I also agree that you have to tell a man what you want. If he doesn't listen then, maybe you Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com